So You’re Getting Married…What About Your Friends?

 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder (Matthew 19:6).

In some relationships, the spouse and their friends come as a packaged deal. If the friends don’t like you, then it’s a deal breaker or vice-a-versa. Believe it or not, couples have divorced because of friends butting into their relationships. Below is a list of questions to inquire between you in your significant other, to determine if your friendships are going to be a make-or-break factor before heading to marital bliss:

·        What type of person would you consider to be a friend?

·        Do you have a best friend of the opposite sex? Why is this person your best friend?

·        Do you believe that the most important friendship to have is with your spouse?

·        How often do you spend time with your friends?

·        Do your friends’ opinions matter more to you than your spouse’s?

·        How important is it to you that your friends are accepting of your spouse?

·        Have you ever had a disagreement with a significant other, due to your friends butting into your relationship?

·        Have your friends ever been a reason for the demise of a past relationship?

·        Have you ever shared details from your relationship with your friends?

Remember ladies; as a rule of thumb, if you have a man that makes you happier, loves you, and treats you like a princess, then keep your relationship business to yourself. There is no need to share these details with your girlfriends. As long as you’re healthy and happy, then they shouldn’t be butting into your business.

XOXO,

Jay


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