B̶a̶t̶t̶l̶e̶ ̶o̶f̶ ̶t̶h̶e̶ ̶S̶e̶x̶e̶s̶ to Joining of the Sexes

Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord (1 Corinthians 11:11).

Our society is in a constant battle of the sexes to the point where it’s starting to demean the other gender. Social media, politics, T.V., songs, taglines, etc., you name it, continues to promote the competition of the sexes. One group is fighting for attention, while the other group is saying, “I am more important,” while both being guilty of putting the other down.  God did not intend for men and women to compete with each other. God made man and woman to edify each other, not tear the other down. Although He took Eve from Adam’s rib, it does not mean that she was less than - God took her from Adam’s side so she could be his partner, close to his heart.

God purposefully gave men and women separate and drastically different characteristics. Men are known to be more technical thinkers; however, this doesn’t mean that they are lacking in emotion and are not capable of being sensitive to others. Women tend to be more passionate in expressing their feelings; this does not mean that we can’t be what society considers to be practical. Men and Women may be on extreme ends of the spectrum when it comes to intellect and biology, but when we come together, we meet in the middle - a happy medium. We can get things done! So instead of putting each other down or bragging about what the other can’t do, let’s start lifting each other up for what we can do together. We all need each other. We can’t do life without the other.

Remember ladies; before you get carried away with an agenda to separate the sexes, ask yourself, “What’s the purpose behind this? How does this bring us together? Whose agenda is this anyway? Is our Creator happy with this agenda?”


XOXO,


 Jay

Myths About Love and Relationships

The following announcements have been brought to you by Valentine’s Day:

Love doesn’t cost a thing (myth) – In love there are sacrifices that will cost you convenience. For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son (John 3:16)

You can’t help who you love (myth) – If this was so, then Jesus would not instruct us to love our neighbor as ourselves (Matthew 22:39).

A relationship is 50/50 (myth) – Love is unconditional and does not keep score (Matthew 5:46).

If you love me, then you will... (m) – Love is non-threatening, nor does it require you to do something that’s unbecoming (1 Corinthians 13:5).

Love hurts sometimes (myth) – Love builds up; it does not tear down (1 Corinthians 8:1b).

Love does not pay the bills (myth) – Love will encourage you to provide for your family (1 Timothy 5:8).


XOXO,



Jay

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Damsel in Distress

Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert. (Isaiah 43:19).

This morning’s announcement is inspired by Canton Jones’ song, “Won’t He Do It.” I woke up this morning with the verses, “Won’t He do it...You [Jesus] will make a way out of no way,” in my head. So I have been singing this song all day, and the timing couldn’t be more perfect. We all have those days or moments in life, where some days are more trying than others. So if you're going through, then this inspiration is for you.
If you’re in the middle of a situation – whether it is a tumultuous relationship, depleted finances, or a stressful job and you do not see a way out or the light at the end of the tunnel, do not fret. For the Lord is with you. He’s going to make a way out of no way. I know this because He has a track record of making the impossible, possible. How quickly we forget when we are deep in distress.
Remember ladies; sometimes Jesus will allow us to succumb to, what seems like impossible situations, just to remind us that He’s God and He’s the Way Maker. He does this to strengthen our faith in Him. Just know, God’s got you, have a blessed week!

XOXO,

Jay

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If You Add Him

In all thy ways acknowledge him, and shall direct thy paths (Proverbs 3:6).

I remember dating this man who appeared to be the ideal gentleman, but during our very short-lived relationship, I asked God, "If this isn't the man for me, can you give me a very obvious sign?" Well, I never heard from him again. Thank you, God. I had my answer. What appears to be good isn't always good for you. God can foresee uneventful situations before we can. #mercy Literally, God should be all up in your business in EVERY aspect of your life-even what you consider minute. The problem is we only consult God when we think we need Him and in reality, when do we not need Him? The human side of us wants to figure everything out ourselves or by consulting our girlfriends. If we spent more time consulting God through prayer and reading the Bible, I can bet my paycheck we would spend less time thinking how to go about solving or facing a problem. I am not saying never consult your girlfriends.  What I am saying is consider whom and where she gets her advice. She may unintentionally give you the wrong advice based on how she's feeling that day. We have all given wrong advice and thought later, I shouldn't have said that...I was having an off day. We aren't perfect and to err is human. So we must grow to learn that what's good for us may not be good for our girlfriend. Topics to Inspire a Consultation with God: ·  Family & Friendships ·  Relationships and Dating ·  Raising Your Children ·  Health and Wellness ·  Career and Finance ·  Emotions, Hardship & Perils ·  Last, but not least, EVERYTHING

Remember; ladies, there is no issue to petty to discuss with God. If it bothers you, He wants you to confide and trust Him to be your chief executive advisor # grace.

XOXO,  Jay

Wake-up. Work out. Eat healthily. Apply anti-aging cream. Apply sunscreen. Repeat.

For bodily exercise profiteth little: but godliness is profitable unto all things, having promise of the life that now is, and of that which is to come (1 Timothy 4:8)

These methods are a very notable, but they are subpar if your inner man is dwindling away. If you lack love and dignity for someone who doesn’t look like you, you only respect those that respect you, you choose not to get along with others that disagree with your opinion, or you’re always angry then your daily fit and anti-aging routine is futile. Hence, that is why the expensive anti-aging cream is not working, and crow’s feet continue to create roadmaps along the corners of your eyes. You’re fighting an uphill battle. All of these character flaws are stressors on the body. The American Fitness Professionals & Associates states, “Perpetual anger and distress can form permanently on the face in the form of fine lines and deep wrinkles. When the face expresses chronic sad or angry emotions, the constant scowling can turn into wrinkles formed by muscle memory. The more you hold hope, optimism, and joy at the top of your list of priorities, the younger your face will appear. Moreover, happier people live longer often with fewer health problems” (Vivian Rivera, The Most Common Factors in Premature Aging, January 2018). Employing the Fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance will lead to a longer and much healthier life (Galatians 5:22-23).

Remember ladies; a happier woman is a more productive woman.

XOXO,

Jay

So You’re Getting Married…Let’s Talk About Sex

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge (Hebrews 13:4).

I purposely made sex the last topic of this series – not that it’s not essential, but couples usually place more emphasis on this subject rather than the previously mentioned topics in this series. Having sex too soon will skew your judgment in other pertinent areas of your relationship. Once you have checked off other matters within your relationship and you find that both you and your significant other are compatible, now you can focus on talking about sex, not having, just talking. While everything else may check off in your relationship, sex can be a deal breaker. Following are some questions to ask during your conversation:

•    Have you ever had a sexual relationship with the same-sex?

•    What are your views on pre-marital sex or waiting to have sex until marriage?

•    How important is sex to you in a relationship?

•    Has sex ever been a reason for a break-up in your previous relationships?

•    What were your cultural upbringings and family views towards sex?

•    Do you enjoy pornography?

•    What sexual activities do you enjoy the most?

•    Are there sexual acts that make you uncomfortable?

•    Have you ever been sexually assaulted?

•    How often do you expect sex?

Remember ladies; sex should always be the last item to check off on your compatibility list. A grounded relationship is like a well-built sundae and sex is the cherry on top.

XOXO,


Jay

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