Behold, thou art fair, my love...thou hast doves’ eyes within thy locks... (Song of Solomon 4:1 in reference to the Shulamite Woman). His legs are as pillars of marble, set upon sockets of fine gold... (Song of Solomon 5:15 in reference to Solomon)
Of course, we're going to put on our best face and outfit when wooing our significant other. However, when we're well into the relationship, we tend to let our physical appearances go. We say to ourselves, "I got him now, he's not going anywhere." Besides, if you have the best man in the world and you're head over heels in love, why would you not want to look your very best for him? On the other hand, he may be thinking the same thing, “I got her on lockdown now,” so he decides to let his gym pass go. While looks may not be everything, they are an intricate part of the relationship. Physical attraction is a crucial component to physical intimacy. Here are a few questions to ponder over during date night to see if your potential spouse takes pride in how he looks or if he's just trying to lock you in before he lets it out (his stomach, lol):
· How important is it that you always look your best?
· How important is it to you that your spouse looks her best?
· Do you frequently undergo cosmetic procedures such as waxes or pedicures?
· How would you respond if your spouse gained a significant amount of weight?
· Are you concerned about your physical appearance as you age?
· What would your response be if your spouse lost a leg or another limb?
· Has physical appearance ever been a factor in a break-up?
Remember ladies; your man may love you unconditionally, but what it took to get him is going to be what it takes to keep him.
XOXO,
Jay
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