Monday, August 30, 2021

A Personal Relationship with Jesus Vs. Religion

 Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling (Philippians 2:12).

Since my conversion from religion to a personal relationship with Jesus, when asked what’s my religion, I no longer answer, Christianity. I now say I do not have a religion. I have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, my Savior, and Lord. In my deliverance from religion, I have learned that religion is an unclean spirit that is derived from the spirit of lying and deceit.

Religion tells you to practice Christianity, but Jesus tells us to be a Christian and follow after Him (Matthew 16:24 and Acts 11). The Greek definition of a Christian means to be a follower of Christ. To be a follower of Christ, we must have a personal relationship with Him. We cannot follow someone whom we do not know. Religion keeps us from having a personal relationship with Jesus because it implies that we must work our way into His heart, but Jesus loved us before we came to know him. Jesus died for us while we were still in our sins (Romans 5:8). We cannot work our way into Jesus’ heart. We obey Jesus because we love Him. We love Him because we come to know more about Him, and the more we know about Him, the more we desire to please Him. For example, when you are in a healthy romantically involved relationship, the more you spend time with your significant other and get to know them, your love and desire to please them increases.

You do not want to do things that disappoint or upset them. This sentiment is also true when you have a personal relationship with Jesus. The more you spend time with Jesus and get to know Him, you have a desire to obey Him. When you follow Him, your faith in Him increases. Over time, your character becomes more Christ-like, and the passions that you once had in the world start to change. However, with religion, this (becoming more Christ-like) is not so.

Religion places a yoke on you to keep the law, which is impossible for you to do – if you break one law, then you're guilty of breaking them all (James 2:10). Religion also encourages saints to serve Jesus in fear to keep from going to hell. Jesus wants us to honor Him as our God, but He doesn’t want us to serve Him in fear because we’re afraid to go to hell. Jesus wants us to want to have a relationship with Him – He wants a Father to daughter relationship with us. Religion suppresses us, but a relationship with Jesus incites us to go out and be the people God has called us to be and live the lives that God has called us to live. In Jesus, there’s freedom. In religion, there’s bondage. If you are going to follow after religion, Jesus said true religion is visiting the fatherless and widows in their affliction and not conforming to this world (James 1:26-27). Even in doing this, you cannot serve others in love without a relationship with Jesus, and you cannot be changed from this world if you do not know Jesus.

So if you do not have a personal relationship with Jesus, start one today by accepting Jesus as your Savior and Lord (Romans 10:9). If you have accepted Jesus as your Savior and Lord, then spend time with Jesus and examine your relationship. Do you serve Jesus in religion or love?

Stay tuned for next week’s post on How to Develop a Personal Relationship with Jesus.

 

XOXO,

 

Jay

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