I purposely made sex the last topic of this series – not that it’s not essential, but couples usually place more emphasis on this subject rather than the previously mentioned topics in this series. Having sex too soon will skew your judgment in other pertinent areas of your relationship. Once you have checked off other matters within your relationship and you find that both you and your significant other are compatible, now you can focus on talking about sex, not having, just talking. While everything else may check off in your relationship, sex can be a deal breaker. Following are some questions to ask during your conversation:
• Have you ever had a sexual relationship with the same-sex?
• What are your views on pre-marital sex or waiting to have sex until marriage?
• How important is sex to you in a relationship?
• Has sex ever been a reason for a break-up in your previous relationships?
• What were your cultural upbringings and family views towards sex?
• Do you enjoy pornography?
• What sexual activities do you enjoy the most?
• Are there sexual acts that make you uncomfortable?
• Have you ever been sexually assaulted?
• How often do you expect sex?
Remember ladies; sex should always be the last item to check off on your compatibility list. A grounded relationship is like a well-built sundae and sex is the cherry on top.
XOXO,
Jay
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