Compassion: Woman 2 Woman

Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous: Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing. (1 Peter 3:8-9).

As women, we are more compassionate to members of the opposite sex than we are to each other. You would think that we would be a lot nicer and softer because we can understand what we, as women go through. We are quicker to judge, condemn, and criticize one another than we are to encourage each other. So the next time you come across a fellow sister, and she appears to be struggling through the day, cut her some slack and be a lot more understanding. Do not be so quick to put her down because she's having a bad hair day, in a bad mood, or has gained a couple of pounds. You don’t know what she had to face when she got up this morning or what’s going on in her life.

Here are some tips that we should consider to show each other compassion:

·        Be kinder to the meanest of women, understanding that they are struggling with coping with a great loss or hurt in their lives.

·        Do not criticize the next woman for not being “knowledgeable” in certain life areas. According to Jesus’ standards, we do not always make the mark, that’s why he gives us grace and mercy (Isaiah 53:6; Romans 3:24).

·        Be an encourager in your words and deeds. All of us need encouragement to be the best women that God has called us to be.

·        Be patient and forgiving with each other as Jesus is with us (Colossians 3:12-13).

·        If a woman comes to you asking for advice, instead of giving her your personal opinion, always consult God's Word first to see what Jesus says about her situation.

·        Be transparent. If your approach is acting like you have it all together, then your words and actions will not be impactful.

Remember, showing compassion is an act of love.

XOXO,

 

Jay